Okay...well I will make my word as clear as possible.
I was quoting your words and I said I agree it and it will help a bit...
So even I agree your words make you feel offend?

Respect?
And then I was answering your questions as you mentioned is it ironic that I asking for improvements in forum while breaking balance ingame?
OKay...I will say it more clear now. FOR ME, the friend list is supposed to add for "friends" rather than "all active players" according to its name "Friend List"
And 10++ Zypern whispering you in maze doesn't mean that you are on their friend list. As you said, we can manually type in the character name isn't it?
And that the friend list is supposed to add for "friends" rather than "all active players" is my own opinion. May be other players have different opinion. Who know?